Are you serious about longterm relationships? It was a lot of fun and we parted friends. If the guy in question in this post was a millionaire, I bet the parents would have no problem accepting him and welcoming him into the family. Not trying to be morbid, however, I have a friend at work that's going through this right now. The Unicorn The Unicorn is totally normal and well-adjusted.
Leave us older women alone. He is so cute in those tights. Maggi, hi i tate i how many of your relationships had the partner near to your age?
That being said, if it can be done the way it was in my case, I don't see the harm. He has a good job, and makes a decent living, but is not a workaholic. She has what you might call baggage. But then I read the rest of this thread, and I changed my mind.
Her life is a china shop, and she fears the proverbial bull. Maybe you should familiarize yourself with them. Lots of duders whine like bitches when there are no other fellas around to call them out on it. He is funny, and well-informed, and cooks a mean pasta bolognese.
The idea of dating makes her want to sleep for days. She thinks about dating, and even tries to sometimes, but all the men she meets are Mr. He's just a guy, and will do anything happily for the right woman.
Melissa, I think you see a guy, in the now, who is a great match. You cant worry about what other people think or what is going to happen in the future. Wave bon voyage to that ship, for it has sailed. If you have a connection with someone go for it!
- Conversation with them seem to focus around these areas as well.
- Is this also what you want?
- No, it can't possibly work but you're not going to stop moving forward just because a bunch of internet strangers tell you it's a horrible idea.
Life is too short to deprive oneself of love, wherever it comes from. Are you being used or could you get back together? Even she references how she feels like I'm going to leave her one day because she's getting older but if I didn't put any thought into that then I wouldn't have married her in the first place. They might be the love of your life! Definitely something that needs to be figured out before you plant your flag on this guy.
Today, all these years later, we have a deep, abiding friendship that will last a lifetime. Is proof positive that you are at least as immature as any twenty-anything year old out there, if not less so. That certainly was true of my ex-husband who was a few years older than me. We were talking once and somehow it got into age and dating.
We waste so much time trying to figure things out. She's still gorgeous and her company is what I value most. You can be hurt by someone of any age.
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He has friends from all periods of his life with whom he is still in touch. So women do not always age faster. Your friends need to button up about your relationship unless they are trying to protect you from abuse.
Is that how you deal with your parents too? With his carefully mussed hair, gym membership, and backslapping affability, Mr. Don't make us decide, follow your heart. We need a partner, dating and love not a new son. Please please please tell me what didn't work.
Yet, I still worry about what everyone would think of me and whether it has any hope of working out. He was hung but man did his breath stink. Oh boy can I answer this one!
Yes, of course it was, but like all of the great loves, it was so well worth that piece of my heart. Sucking on your hair just got even grosser! Things are great now and that is where you are living in the right now. Work or not, it is something you will be proud of or ashamed of later in life depending on how you handled it.
You're also old enough to take care of yourself. It's good to hear that you are having experiences with men that are your age. What is it that they can give me that I have never had? You go ahead and continue on with your tirade.
What a woman must consider is what kind of a relationship she really wants. Age difference does matter if a woman is much older. Or date one of Daddy's golf partners if you really want to make your folks even more concerned about you. Maturity is something we earned while we get old. The Zen Mistress works for a nonprofit and thinks deeply about whether shaving her legs sets feminism back.
My reading of your rebuttals suggests to me that you actually have a good handle on your situation already. There are couples like this. He says the most wonderful things. Unless he or you start to mention marriage and long term I wouldnt worry too much about the future. They were nothing to write home about then and I doubt that they've changed much.
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The heck what people may say, relax and enjoy the ride. They will always find something to disagree about. Enjoy now and learn later. Saturday Night types or, at best, Braying Asses.
The second marriage we were exactly the same age. Like your story I have been the main driving force behind it because, like you, she is hesitant, worries about the age, worries about this, worries about that. They had alot in common and got along great. The same thing with George Clooney, who is in his fifties now.
- Do whatever you think will be positive and healthy for the relationship, then wait for things to fall in place.
- Older women as previously mentioned are not looking to have someone take care of them, or prove that they do not need someone to do so.
- As for this man you have an interest in.
- However, you are escalating the debate by name calling, which isn't very mature.
- He seems really keen on me too.
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In so miserable with out him. She tells me about her personal issues and Im not the one to judge. If you love him and he loves you - go for it. Not every age-gap relationship is doomed to fail.